Please stop finding me on grindr & fab and then pretending like you’ve just casually came across me… this is now happening to me several times a day and I’m on grindr for less than 30 minutes.

Just be honest. You’re a fan brilliant, but you start finding my profile claiming to have no idea who I am, but you’re in Manchester or London or even Scotland. Go ahead, message me on Grindr. If you want but pretending that you don’t know who I am and then several days later confessing you’ve been a fan for years it’s just weird. How do I know you’re not some sort of stalker or you’re not putting me in a dangerous situation?