Subs should understand that serving and honoring women can become a joyful, authentic, and sustainable way of life. It demands dedication and a commitment to rebalancing priorities, but once you can consistently prioritize her pleasure without sacrificing your well-being, your life becomes more fulfilling and genuine overall. Dominant women don’t really want or need losers serving them. We need men who can take care of themselves and provide for their queen, which means you must push yourself in your offline life to succeed and share the rewards with her. You need to be physically, mentally, and financially fit enough to truly offer something to her. Losers are comparatively useless compared to a secure and submissive man willing to kneel and surrender to the woman he admires.