September 4, 2026

Coaches
What do you think your coaches were doing after all those late games away? I'll show you.

A note: you're going to notice I'm wearing earbuds. There's a very specific reason why. I'm an analyst. As type-A as you can get. I am watching and looking and reviewing everything, all the time. And that can on occasion make it really hard for me when I'm having sex; prevents me from getting out of my head and into the moment.

Historically I've combatted that with music. I can get myself into a trace state and get in the grove in no time flat, if I've got some music. And more importantly, sex is a literal dance to me and dancing with music is a lot more fun than without. The problem is OF prohibits it and even if I sneak it in, I've already been sued once this year by a record label for a 30-second preview that went on Twitter and had to settle. It was awful.

Enter Apple's transparency mode. I realized recently that I can wear earbuds in transparency mode, allowing me to hear my music and everything around me still without sacrificing your experience and the sounds of what's going on in the room. And I'm not going to get sued. So that's what's going on. I'm having my own EDM experience, but I'm still in the room and engaged. It worked perfectly!

Be open to trying new shit...always! ๐Ÿ˜ˆ

@oxfit81