Shyness changes with age.
It stops being about being seen. It becomes about someone taking more than you’re ready to give.

That’s why I rarely arrive all at once.
I’m not playing cold. I just don’t hand over access after a single look.

I think a lot of men read that as indifference.
When it’s often the opposite: the closeness is there, just not at that speed.

Do you read women the same way — or does reserve immediately look like distance to you?💋