How many men get to experience truly "feeling sexy" ?

Is it seen as a feminine desire and feeling? And is it then looked down upon by other men to express it?

I've been around all of "this" for quite some time now and laugh at the thought of all these wannabe, dominant, "alpha" macho men out there.

Toxic masculinity is just down right embarrassing, but I suppose the lack of self-awareness is a necessity for it to exist.