I changed the rules right in the middle of the game.

Recently a guy started talking to me like everything was already settled. He texted rarely, answered shortly, and acted like I would adjust anyway. And at some point I just thought… wait, why exactly? 🤔

So I stopped being convenient. I shortened my replies, stopped texting first, and calmly focused on my own things. No drama, no scenes. And a couple of days later he was already texting more and trying to get my attention back. That’s when I just smiled.

And in that moment I once again realized that I create the rules. With me it’s simple. I do what I want. And the whole dynamic depends on the pace I set ✨
Tell me in DM… would you handle a game like that with me?