so, ppl always tell me i'm cute, soft, goofy, 'such a vibe' 🌸 and like, i appreciate it, truly! but sometimes, i feel like that's all they see like, underneath the dorky jokes and the bright personality, there's a whole brain going 1000 mph, trying to keep up. my adhd brain is legit a different operating system, and it makes focusing super hard, but it also makes me see the world in, like, technicolor 🌈 the problem is, when i try to talk about something serious, or when i have, like, actual thoughts, sometimes ppl just smile and nod like i'm a golden retriever who just learned to sit. 😩 it's frustrating bc i do have deep thoughts, and i do care about things beyond just being 'a mood' it feels like i have to work twice as hard to be taken seriously, just because my default setting is 'absolute mess' does anyone else feel like their personality sometimes makes ppl miss the real you?