So I’ve had a few comments about my weight recently calling me fat, pointing out that I’ve put weight on. I want to make it very clear that I am fine with how I look, I am getting used to the change in myself but comments never really effect me but I’d like to add some context and transparency (feel free to not read this if you don’t care😂) So for the past few years I have suffered relentlessly with tonsillitis and weakened immune system, I’ve always been curvy but the past few years is the smallest I’ve ever been and it became a bit of an insecurity as I just couldn’t keep any weight on due to always being poorly.The other picture is when I realised how small I actually was and didn’t like it as I thought I’d lost my curves and softness. Ironically this is when I received the most compliments about my body. Well last September I managed to save £5000 to pay to have my tonsils privately removed and since then my health has been amazing hence why I can now keep my weight on. So yes I have put weight on but this is what’s “normal”for me I just haven’t been like this for a while. I understand I am open to comments and judgment and they genuinely don’t bother me but If you don’t have anything nice to say then don’t both because you might just say it to someone who it will effect. I never have to explain myself to anyone but I will always remain transparent so there’s you context to why I’m a lil softer than I was 🖤
