Sexuality is like fire, it can purify or destroy.

In my coaching practice, I’ve talked to men who’ve been badly damaged by extremist BNWO content, and I’m talking specifically about the vile stuff that encourages self deletion

There’s nothing wrong with being turned on by interracial sex, or fantasies of cuckolding, but revving up your sexual energy while you’re entranced by porn leaves you very susceptible to harmful suggestions. This can lead down a very dark road.

If that’s you, hear this: you matter. You are not a villain for existing, for being white.

You’re not less than anyone else. And the voices that tell you to disappear, whether they come from culture, politics, or the dark corners of the internet, are lying to you.

Healing begins when you stop trying to destroy yourself.

You have the right to live. You have the right to love. You have the right to build a beautiful life.

If you’re struggling, please reach out, to someone you trust, to a therapist, to a friend, to a hotline.