๐ Please read the FULL CAPTION for some of my deep thoughts on sex tapes! ๐๐๐ I hope I can normalize a few things and, consequently, help boost people's confidence/change perspectives a bit. ๐
This is a little excerpt from a new f a n scene dropping _**this WEDNESDAY! **_Just some funny chatting before this new partner and I began our fun on the bed. ๐ (And hubby joined in too! ๐)
I do want to say that this is a very different scene from all my others. It was a fun mix of one-on-one fucking and an MFM. Why? Because not everyone stayed hard the whole time. And here are the points I'd like to make:
I think we should normalize guys not staying hard the entire play session. Many people will watch adult content and believe everyone should be able to do the things they see in those videos, when in reality, we can't and shouldn't believe everything we see in big productions. Professionals sometimes take things to stay hard on set, there are fluffers, some feel the need to overperform and exaggerate the sex. But this video is how true and genuine encounters happen. Sometimes, we are a little nervous hooking up with someone new, or it's just not our day, and that is totally fine.
Not every session of sex needs to end with everyone having an orgasm. Sex isn't just about shooting a load out, and you shouldn't feel bad or think of it as a "failure" when you just can't cum. I have a ton of respect for those who don't end up cumming themselves, but made their partner cum, and that's enough to make them happy. When we have this mindset, we feel less stressed about "fucking correctly". I really believe that we shouldn't have goals when having sex (like, "making sure she cums twice" or "giving them a facial" because she might only cum once, and he might not pull out in time). The goal of sex is pleasure for all parties. So we should just enjoy the moment, the sensations, each other - and simply let whatever happens happen. ๐ฅฐ
Okayyy, thanks for coming to my Ted Talk. ๐ Please feel free to comment your thoughts (or DM them to me). I am always happy to discuss these things!