Sky High Confessional #18 ✈️ How I Choose My Collaborations
Lately I’ve been lucky to have quite a few creators visiting Australia, which is actually pretty unusual given how small the serious creator pool is here. So got me thinking it might be interesting to share a little more on how I actually choose who to film with.
It’s now been 3 years since I started OnlyFans (this weeks pic is a nod back to 2023), and a lot has changed in the way I approach collaborations, especially since going full time a month ago. Over the past year I’ve travelled more than ever, and timing and scheduling have become one of the biggest challenges. If I see someone on Twitter and genuinely find them sexy, I’ll add them to my list. If someone reaches out and they’re in a city I’m not planning to visit, I’ll think strategically about whether it makes sense to create an opportunity.
After doing this for a while, you start to notice patterns in what people respond to. Bodybuilders have been big winners. So have seriously hung tops. I pay attention to that because this is my business now, but performance alone isn’t enough to make me say yes. I’m also thinking about the fantasies I want to bring to life. One of the biggest for me this year is taking two very hung tops at once, so I definitely have plans to create more ambitious group scenes. I’ve also been curious about flipping. I’m usually known as the bottom, but some recent switch scenes really surprised me with how much they turned me on. Exploring that dynamic feels exciting and new.
More than anything though, it comes down to chemistry. I can usually tell pretty quickly when I’m chatting with another creator whether it’s going to click. That connection doesn’t have to look one specific way, I just need it to feel real. I genuinely enjoy connecting with people and there are a lot of different types of energy that can feel good. The best scenes, in my opinion, are true collaborations. Not just two bodies in a room, but two creators who are equally invested in making something hot, authentic and memorable. And in the process can be absolutely very genuinely pleasurable.
So that’s how I choose now. More intentional, more aligned, and more focused on building something that excites both me and you.
Now over to you... What sets off chemistry the most to you?
