October 24, 2025

I actually WAY prefer unlocks and tips to gifts, but occasionally I’ll let someone special buy something for me 💙

I had a bad experience with someone who bought me a small sex toy (around $30), he checked in all the time to see if I’d used it, wanted a blow by blow account of me using it, pictures, video, constantly reminded me he’d bought it for me so I felt indebted. It turned out the gift was way more about him than it was about me so I decided I didn’t want to encourage gifting too much.