So I'm going to finish telling a story that happened at that moment. Right Now.

A very handsome content creator with a big dick contacted me to do a video shoot and I agreed.

He was a man of few words and not much of a talker, but that's okay, not everyone needs to be talkative.

The day of filming was to happen, and I asked him if everything was okay for later.

He asked if my boyfriend could film the two of us to make it faster.

THIS IS THE FIRST RED FLAG

I told him that to solidify the content, I don't rush or hurry; I take the time necessary to ensure the recording is good.

Finally, he said that he didn't perform oral sex or kiss.

THAT WAS THE SECOND RED FLAG

And since he gave me that opening, I asked him if he was straight

Obviously he said yes.

I politely said "it's not going to happen" and he asked me why.

I mentioned that one of the reasons for creating content for platforms is to try to bring something more real, intimate, and closer to you, the people who are here spending money with us by subscribing to our content.

My goal is not to do something mechanical, with your scene partner counting down the time until it's over.

At work, and we don't always love our jobs.

But i love mine.

And sometimes we start working with something we love until we begin to hate it because we allowed ourselves to do things we shouldn't have accepted.

Going to work with someone you know clearly isn't interested in you at all isn't mentally healthy.

And he finished the sentence by saying that most people who work wirh content hate their jobs. I obviously disagreed with him.

And I told him that if he's doing something he doesn't want to do, and he doesn't feel any desire, attraction, or urge to do it, just for the money and to reach the gay audience that gives him more viewers, then that's fine.

But that doesn't work for me.

Although I highly value the beauty of the videos and want them to be aesthetically pleasing for you, the viewers, it's very important that I'm having fun.

There are people who are genuinely gay, but they choose to create this persona that doesn't kiss or perform oral sex, and that's perfectly fine because that's the persona they created.

Now, filming with someone who doesn't want to be there is impossible for me.

And to conclude, he also said that his audience believes he is bisexual and that's perfectly fine with him.

I'm not going to judge because there are many people who genuinely fetishize heterosexuals.

I sometimes masturbate while watching straight porn. It's sex, and sex is always going to be fun.

And everything is fine.But being in bed having sex with someone who doesn't want to be there is a whole different story.

And today's lesson is: pay attention to the signs. I always try to start a conversation before filming begins to know who I'm dealing with. It's always important to find a middle ground, and if there isn't one, that's okay, the filming doesn't have to happen.

But one thing that will always be sacred to me is chemistry. If I've just started getting to know this person, I'm going to do everything I can to make them relax and feel desired, and for the chemistry to flow naturally.