Good Morning and Happy Saturday! So it is hard to believe tomorrow is October, like where did the time go? Before you know it we will be ringing in 2024 with a brand new year! Anyway, I will say that I do love the fall season, the brisk weather, you know, the approaching holidays - so much goodness!

Now, it is funny, as different things inspire me regarding what to write with my daily posts! Well, almost daily, as I do miss them from time to time - my apologies! As you can guess, being a "content creator" is quite fun, and rewarding, but like anything, to do it well requires a considerable amount of time.

One thing I've picked up on, that I'll happily share with you, is that there are, at a high level, three types of communication styles that I often see with my supporters, erotic philanthropists, consumers of content, fans, clients (pick whichever name resonates with you), which are as follows: "The Quiet Type", "The X", and "The Blocked". Now as you know, I am often radically real in my messages, so if you are sensitive or the easily triggered type, well, you understand.

So let's talk about the first type, "The Quiet Type". The Quiet Type is absolutely wonderful. This type of person seldom, if ever, responds to any messages. When the person buys something I will write to say thank you, ask if the person enjoyed it, and as you can guess, the person doesn't write back. I can tell they saw my message, they might leave a heart, and they might every now and then write back, but it is extremely minimalistic. I'm not sure why the person is "The Quiet Type", I imagine each has their reasons, but either way, the person is greatly appreciated. And what's funny, is that many of my fans are this way, including some of my long-running supporters! So again, if you are the quiet type, while you will see a lot of thank you messages as well as messages wishing you a beautiful day, do know I am grateful, and you don't have to say it back - the fact that you keep returning tells me you are enjoying and what I'm doing is good!

The second type is equally as special, and is a broader category, which is why I came up with "The X". This type of supporter is much like the "Quiet Type" except, well, they are not quiet. They will respond to almost all my messages. They will send a picture of a view of the mountains or beach, or snowfall, or a picture of their pet. All kinds of fun things. This person will see my message, respond with letting me know they enjoyed, or provide whatever feedback (which is always appreciated). If I have time, which typically I don't, I will trade a message or two back, before I have to move on. The good news is, like "The Quiet", "The X" type also realizes that I am busy, and most often are grateful for the interaction. Believe it or not, so many are surprised to get a thank you message, as from what I've heard, so many creators lack the common courtesies of thanking someone for supporting their craft, which I find abysmally sad. I mean, if I was selling fruit at a Farmer's Market and you walked up and bought my juicy peaches - can you imagine if while checking you out I failed to say, "Thank you!"? I mean, what the fuck? Anyway, it's sad which is why I always try to impress upon you to be good to yourself and be good to others - to be the type of person others want to be around.

Now the last group, well, this group is the reason I wrote the warning. You see, I don't often block someone who has previously supported my craft - it does happen, but rarely. For example yesterday, someone who had subscribed for a year, well, they messaged me a "Hi", LoL. Which I always think is funny, because it is like, "yes?". Again, would you just walk up to a busy bartender and say, "Hi". Hopefully not, in fact, hopefully you're not making any statements, more like asking a question, such as, "can I please have another…?" Anyway, I looked and saw the person had spent $5.60, which again, I do appreciate. You see, the majority of people who message me a "Hi" or "please fuck me" or "I wish you were single" typically have a $0 next to their name along with at least six months of following my journey. So yeah, then the person asks if I have any pregnant videos, which again, it's like, ahhh….would you ask a librarian if her library has any books? Fuck no. But as you can see, I was polite, pointed to the search and all was well. I'd like to think I'm a reasonable person, but then, when the person came back, in a message I can't share because as soon as I block someone I lose the message thread, but the person came back to discuss pricing strategy, wanting to know if I'm busy because I'm pacing my videos too low or too high. For fuck's sake, that was the end of it. The block button came out, and that was the end of it, well, until I was inspired to write this message, upon coming across "The Quiet Type" during my morning rounds of thanking those wonderful people.

So yes, if you've read this far, thank you, and I hope this brings value to your world. Again, to those creators who are able to spend all day messaging, I'm absolutely in awe. Sadly, to me, conversations are not scalable - there is only so much of me. I remember doing the math for you in a previous post. It is why I focus on the erotica, the art, because when I paint something beautiful, that investment of time becomes an annuity, that pays out again and again and again. To rate your dick, to join a one on one video chat, to whatever, like, it just doesn't make sense, unless of course, you want to pay much, much, much more than what the average going rate would be for said service. Time is money, and there is no time to lose.

Why am I sharing this all with you? Oh I don't know, it's on my mind, and hopefully, if anything, it brings you perspective and another "behind the curtains" look into the world of a content creator. Because like the the one message, where the person said, "I wouldn't know how busy OF creators are", let me tell you. If the person is remotely successful, and has a life outside of content creation, the person is most likely extremely, extremely busy - just like me.

To be successful in life, one approach is to put yourself in the other person's shoes. What is the other person thinking, feeling - what are they going through? What's important to them? What do they want from you? While you won't totally know, if you're smart, you can at least get an idea before speaking up - make sense? Think before you speak? And so yeah, I share all of this with you in the hope of making you an even better person. I want to bring the naughty with the good. Keep in mind, this right here, while I want you to stop by from time to time and have a good time, whether you are "The Quiet Type" or "The X Type" I don't want this or any other OnlyFans page, or any adult whatever to consume your world. You hear stories about guys who spent so much supporting a creator, only to walk away four months bitter and regretting their emotional and monetary investment. That's not my style. It's why I did that article for X-Biz. My goal is to keep it real, naughty, and happy. I don't want anyone ever walking away in anger. It's not worth it. As my friend said, not all money is good money - I agree.

So this has run long, but again, thank you, I appreciate those, who are here for the right reasons (looking at my Quiet Types and X Types), for being here, and I truly hope you have a beautiful weekend!

XoXo,

KS

P.S. I should really take the time to proofread, and get it right, as I love proper grammar (which is why I'm a big fan of Grammarly), but being that I would end up re-writing or deleting what I wrote, I'm just simply going to go with it! My apologies!