Good Evening and Happy Sunday! I hope you haven't missed me too much today and my apologies for writing so late in the day! As the weekend wraps to a close, I want to wish you well on a good night's rest and wish you a beautiful and productive Monday!
Even if it feels like each day is the same, I would urge you to keep taking positive and productive steps forward. Little steps lead to big steps, and while it might seem like everything is going nowhere fast, I can tell you, in time, it will add up and make a huge change in your world.
I mean, not that I'm any shining example, but I started this page back in January of 2021 and almost two years later I'm over 4500 fans. Now again, true, a lot of those fans I imagine are creators, which is ok, and many are simply fans, like those in a strip club who sit as far away from the stage as possible, and that's cool too, though I am happy to say that each day I get more and more messages like this which put a total smile on my face. I'm sharing for those out there who I know will feel where this wonderful man is coming from...
"Hiya, lovely! I want to share with you my gratefulness and appreciation for what you do and I’ve spent some time pondering how to do that. I’d love to bestow an Earth-shattering tip upon you but I’m not exactly flush with the kind of funds that would allow that just at the moment, and you wouldn’t want me spending what I can’t afford anyway. Besides, there’s only so much such a tip can say as whatever message it sends is completely subjective and open to interpretation that could easily be influenced by timing, context, what kind of mood one might be in or experiences from the past, etc. Maybe a giant tip would say “okay, this dude is for sure trying to fuck me whether he says so or not” or maybe it would say “goodness, what a kind individual with a generous nature”. I’d be more inclined to assume the former considering the nature of the business, the number of guys who probably proposition you weekly and the mass misinterpretation I’m sure many of we consumers have of the relationship…
between a creator and her customers. I don’t think flinging you a random pic of my dick really screams that I value you and admire what you do, but then I doubt there’s much care or consideration behind such sharing. Or maybe they think they’re actually being generous?
I feel that expressing MY gratefulness, appreciation and respect for YOU, comes first from acknowledging and thanking you for your gratefulness, appreciation and respect for me and my fellow customers. I want you to know I read your posts to the end and am delighted by the depth of awareness that you speak with, the time you spend on building your fantasy world for our mutual benefit, the ability to distinguish (for those who are paying attention) the line between fantasy and reality, and the consideration you have for those of us on this end of the table. I don’t feel looked down upon but considered and understood to be a human being with a complicated life of his own. I thank you for your truth-telling and understanding of the nature of the relationship you work to develop between us, where its limitations lie and how to get the best out of it for all involved. It’s no accident I immediately related to you and your content, and its not because you show yourself in glorious, explicit detail—it’s not like the internet is exactly short on porn—it’s because you have cultivated a very specific brand (for lack of a better word) and that brand speaks to those of us who are looking for something beyond a furious, habitual wank.
I could keep going, there’s endless nuance to unpack in how you bring your artful content to us and why it’s so enjoyable but I’ll just keep it to showing my appreciation. I just want you to know I do consider and value you, you’re not just something to jerk off to. Thank you for sharing yourself with us!"
I hope you enjoyed his words as much as me! I do believe that understanding, respect and apprecition is the foundation for any positive relationship - I hope you agree... :)
XoXo,
KS