Good Evening and Happy Wednesday! My apologies for the delay in writing a post to share my thoughts with you! From all the happenings of the season, well, if I was to keep going, it would only sound like an excuse! It’s funny because there is truly so much that goes into this fantasy world, and that is on top of all that goes on in real life. Whether it is a new work of art or one of old which I have recently remastered, it is truly my goal to provide you with an unexpected and premium experience. Let’s face it, at the end of the day, you don’t have to subscribe to me, you don’t have to buy a video, and you don’t have to tip. If you’re looking to cum, there are many places online where you could do that without paying a single penny – am I right? I’m right.
Each day, I do my best to go through and thank every single person that picked me, and if I cannot get to it that day, I make sure to do it the next day. I’ve said it time and time before, and I see all those I message who have yet to respond, which is ok; I’m not mad, but I want you to know that I am grateful and find it so flattering to have you continue to give me a try. For those who have experienced what it is like to “buy drinks from my bar”, you will have seen messages such as, “Thank you, Mr. X! Did you enjoy?” or “Thank you, thank you, thank you!”. After I’ve said them to someone over five times, and seeing my own words, with many times no response, I am tempted to think, “what’s the point?” or “does the person think I’m even being sincere?”. And in my heart, there is a point, and I am sincere.
If you haven’t guessed, while I have a great time being naughty, there is a substantial financial benefit that comes with being naughty, and if it weren’t for those embracing the erotica, there’s a good chance I wouldn’t still be doing this as I would have burned out and given up like many new content creators do every day. If you didn’t realize this, there are forums all over Reddit of creators seeking advice and questioning why people aren’t paying money for their nude pictures. I’m fortunate, very fortunate, that I’ve found my stride, my way, and that you’ve embraced it. Thank you.
Tomorrow I will write an article I've been asked to write for XBIZ titled "How to build quality customer relationships at arm's length." I feel I am well suited to write, as I have a lot to share, but I wanted to take a moment to give you a preview before I put pen to paper, if you will. For me, the key component to making this work, not just for me but, more importantly, for you, is coming at this from a place of appreciation, gratitude, and respect. Believe it or not, there are a ton of creators who look at guys who pay for porn not in the best light; in other words, they think less of you. Now, for sure, there are those of you out there who like that, want the humiliation, and want to be beneath me (no judgment), and I appreciate it, but when you strip away the fantasy and the fun, it’s the ability for a creator to see the user on the other side as a person and not a wallet. I’ve heard that from many, and let’s face it, unless you enjoy being a wallet, you don’t want to feel like a wallet (again, unless that is your kink).
Now I would be remiss to say, and I’ve said it before, my absolute desire with what I do is to make a lot of money – like a lot of money. The amount of time and energy – you have no idea. There is a saying about someone putting ten thousand hours into their craft before they find their way; I’ve done that, yet I still have so much to improve upon. Now sadly, even as I write, I feel my thoughts are going sideways, and I have deviated from the point I wished to make, but the thought has once again caught me; I think it is me being radically real with you, so you clearly know what this is and what this isn’t – make sense? I like analogies because whether it is Hooters or the Strip Club, while the waitress or dancer is flirting and having a great time, hearts shouldn’t be broken when the check is brought to the table or the song for your lap dance ends – it is what it is. Unless, of course, someone was manipulated and led to believe that it was something more, then that’s where issues arise.
So to me, because my “customers” know where I’m coming from, the boundaries I’ve established up front, by the way, I think it makes it easier for you, as the “customer” to figure out if what I want is something that works for you. If it does, great, and if it doesn’t, that’s fine too. You wouldn’t believe how many people join my page, ignore the words in my post about being a busy bartender and then message me a picture of their cock or ask me if I will cuck them or they start calling me Mommy or whatever. Honestly, it is exhausting, which is why for someone who wastes my time, I block them. When someone shows who they are, in that they don’t care about me, they don’t respect my time; I block them. I’m fortunate that I no longer have to talk someone into buying a video and for all those who have asked about sexting and cock ratings – I don’t do them. I just don’t, I’m not interested. My model is to scale. It's why I focus on the content because people enjoy the content that I create, and a custom I create for you, will most likely be done in a way that is enjoyable for another – make sense? Do you want to buy a cock rating I did for someone else? Probably not.
Oh and one more thing, for anyone who might ask – why do I not show my face? If it was just my husband and me, and we had zero friends, zero family, I would. And by doing so, I would do infinitely better (financially) than I’m doing today – you have no idea. Like no idea. But in doing so, I would sadly risk the potential embarrassment, shame and all the negative stigma that would come with doing what I do with said family and friends. In other words, others would suffer because I put myself out there - make sense? Please don’t take this as a slam to anyone reading who is a creator who has decided to go, “all in” – I admire you and wish you absolute success! With that said, if you did happen to know me, and you passed my husband or me on the street, I would like to think that you would just smile and nod, a simple gesture of appreciation and respect and in return you’d see a smile, and a simple wave. It’s not me being the naughty pornstar and you being some pervy person getting off online – its two people on opposite ends of the table doing something beneficial for the other – people helping people.
So yeah, as I look to wrap up my “daily” message, I would like to end it with thanks. Without you, this is not possible, I would have given up and walked away. With that said, I am in absolute awe of what this has become, and if you for a moment think this is just a free OnlyFans page, I invite you go check out kswifey.com. While I’ve come so far, in many ways, I’m only getting started.
XoXo,
KS