Good Afternoon and Happy Thursday!  I wanted to take a moment and give you a bit of encouragement.  As you know, I am radically honest with you in my approach and outlook on life.  My goal is to make money while having fun and making you a better version of yourself.  It is why, while I'm happy for you to enjoy, I want you to enjoy responsibly.  Unlike many creators, I am not here to take all your money and drain you dry - I don't have the stomach or heart for it.  Do I want the money you can responsibly spend? Sure, I do, but more than that, I want balance in your life!  Would I want you spending all your entertainment money on me?  No!  Why?  Because I'm eventually going to not satisfy your expectations, let you down, and then you will be swimming in a world of regret as you will wish you had spent your time differently.  Am I making sense?  I hope so!

I received a message earlier from a very good person, at least from what I know of him, he's always been respectful and supportive, and I have a high opinion of him.  Recently he decided to talk to his spouse about his fantasy of sharing her with another man.  And as it turns out, his wife was receptive and excited to the idea, however, the husband soon realized that maybe he should have kept his fantasy to himself and not said anything.  After the couple made plans with another man, the husband had his wife back out of the "date."  

Now, that is all the background to the message I am going to share with you, which is:

"I've been a bit down recently. Could I ask you to look at my cock and give me your opinion on it?"

My short answer to him was, "no."  One, while I've performed cock ratings in the past, it is not something I do today as I focus my time on creating content that I can re-sell repeatedly  But it wasn't just that; the truth is, if your ego, if your happiness, if your sense of self-worth or image is based on your dick - you really should reconsider your outlook.  

Trust me; no one cares more about your dick than you do. It's true.  Despite the porn-fueled world, where a big cock is a king, most women, including me, prefer an average cock. Of course, it's not a popular opinion, and I'm not an authority on the subject; I can only give my view and those of my friends and those I've read online, but yeah.  But saying average is just fine isn't sexy - right?

Would you believe one of my fans had a big dick, a huge dick, like a crazy big dick.  And would you like to know something?  He admitted that it caused him more problems than good in many ways.  Sure it would work for a first-night hookup with a girl who had too many drinks at the bar, but he told me that he had trouble getting a girl to go a second night without drinks - bigger wasn't better.  While stretching a tight pussy sounds amazingly hot, go stick a cucumber in your mouth or ass and let me know how it feels.  Sure it feels good up to a point, but past that point, again, you let me know how it feels LoL.  

How many of you think my husband has a big dick?  He does not.  His dick is very, very average.  There is nothing special about my husband's dick when viewed next to ten other dicks.  If I had to rate his dick, and I was being real, I'd give it an honest five.  But you know what - I still married him!  And do you think my husband cares about the size of his dick?  Sure, like you, he wishes it was bigger, but does he obsess over it and hold his self-worth as a man based on the inches in his pants?  No.  Fuck no.  He also doesn't need me confirming in a "cock rating" what he already knows.  It's average.

So my message to you is if you're not dating, or you're not trying, or whatever, because you think your dick isn't good enough, stop thinking about your dick. Instead, start thinking about having fun, living life, and enjoying the adventure.  I promise it will get you much further than, sadly, where the man who messaged me is today...

Instead of focusing on your dick, focus on your heart, your mind, and the way you treat others. I want you to go far in life.

XoXo,

KS