Good Morning and Happy Tuesday! Ah, I feel like there are so many thoughts that I would like to share with you today and I'm trying to figure out how to start. As you know, with the platform, I'm so fortunate to have, it is my desire to bring along with the naughty escape, positive change to your life. I know that sounds ridiculous as in many ways the two are at odds with each other, but even with that said, that's what I'm after. In many ways, life is a contradiction, we say we want to do this, but yet we end up doing that, which is at odds with what we said - you know?

So I suppose the topic of today is "Respect". And there are tons of things out there, from quotes about the CEO respecting the janitor to you name it, and in my mind, they are all true. We should love and respect one another. It doesn't matter one's beliefs, background, skin color, faith, nationality, whatever, at the end of the day, we are all people and each of us, as I mentioned yesterday, has a story, and each of us is trying to make it in this world in our own way. Now that doesn't mean you have to approve or celebrate someone else or their decisions or actions, no no. There are many things I do not agree with, yet I very much believe in one's freedom to do as they wish, and in return, I want the freedom to do as I wish.

It's funny, as I make a lot of interracial and BBC content. As you know, almost all the videos I create start as someone else's fantasy dream. Someone has this idea in their head, they bring it to me, and depending on the ask as well as the flexibility to make it the way I best see fit, I'll accept and when the time comes, I'll paint the vivid work of art. So as you can imagine, there are a lot of people asking me to make this type of content. Now what you may or may not know, is it is roughly an equal split between those who are white and those who are black, my executive producers, who request me to make this kind of content - which on the surface, tells me it is equally enjoyed, independent of race. Is that ok? I think so.

Like comedy, where the jokes hit on points that one couldn't say in everyday open conversation, the art I make, I think is similar in nature. I want everything I create to be tastefully done in a way that is hot, erotic, real, but never something that is deemed hateful. It's not in my heart. Do I play on stereotypes? Sure I do! But so do all successful comedians. Is there anything wrong with that? I don't think so, after all, this is entertainment.

But let's take fantasy and entertainment to reality. Ever heard the line, "don't judge a book by the cover?" I had this person who recently bought one of my videos. It was a naughty wife (cuckold) themed video and I wanted to know if he liked the cuckold or the bull perspective (the other man). Want to know what he said?

"So I’m a switch! I enjoy both but I am a black man so most of the time ppl want me to play the bull. But I can be extremely dominant or I’m extremely submissive"

So yeah! I almost laughed out loud and I loved it. While stereotypes can be accurate most of the time (if they weren't, they wouldn't be a stereotype), they don't always fit and are not always true. Fantasy is fantasy and fantasy doesn't always represent one's reality.

And the message, when I wrap up this lengthy post, is that if you rip away all the noise, the distractions, the news, the whatever, what I do think is true, is that we are all much more alike than we are different. We all want the same good things for ourselves, our families and our friends. We all want to smile and we all want to be happy and we all want to have a good day.

Take good care of those in your life and be kind, and patient with others, whether friend or stranger. What the world needs is a lot more love...

And these words are for me too.

To all the wonderful people who help make this possible, thank you very much! And with that, I hope you have a great day...

XoXo,

KS