Post from KSWifey · June 18, 2021

To those who've been around and get the game - thank you. To those new to the game, this is not the best approach as it will lead to being blocked.

It's of no consequence to me as I simply enjoy another sip of coffee and continue on with my day. I find it curious why someone would believe that I would be so open to sharing something so personal with them when they have done absolutely zero for me. In many ways, as non-real life as this place is (I mean, fantasy videos, naked, etc etc), I try to foster a community of respect and real-life. We are all people doing our best to make it in this world in the best possible way.

I realize it is easy to be big and bold when you are anonymous behind a keyboard, I mean, look at the one typing, in every form or fashion, that is me. So I get it. But why not try to mimic our interactions with each other in ways that resemble real life? I would encourage, not just in your moments with me, but with people you work with, your family members, your friends...strangers on the street. Why not smile ask how they are doing and wish them a great day? Is there anything wrong with injecting a little positivity into someone's day?

I've given this advice before, but I'll give it again. If you want to stand out, especially with a girl, be different. Don't do what everyone else does. That doesn't mean be a clown or be crazy, a lot of times just by doing the simple things, you will be different. Smile, listen, be slow to judgement. Simply be there for someone. In this online naughty world, another tip that will work wonders for you. Now granted, Mr Sandman either gets a high off of his approach, maybe it's worked in the past with others, but to me, it is completely the wrong approach. If we agree that his intentions are good and he's trying to do the right thing, he's clearly going about it in the wrong way. What would the right way be....? Well, if I were in his shoes and I wanted to talk or engage with me, I might buy a video or buy a photoset or just randomly send a tip. If this was real life and I was at the bar, I imagine he might offer to buy me a drink or if we went on a date he'd pay for dinner - or am I too "old fashioned"?

So anyway, I hope this place serves as a brief and temporary escape from the challenge and stress of life. A place where your mind can check into a brief adult playground, and then be enough of a distraction to relieve tension and get you back to your grinding reality, because let's face it...life is hard. It isn't easy. Had he comes along and bought a video or sent a tip, I would have messaged him, he wouldn't have even needed to message me. I would have thanked him and possibly even asked if I could send him a gift for giving me a try, for supporting my art. But yeah, I truly have nothing to prove.

I'm here because this is a fun, enjoyable and rewarding way to be creative and make money.....

But is it all about the money? Nope.

I'm also here to help people live a better life which is why I take the time to share my insights. I don't want you to be comfortably uncomfortable. I want to inspire and push you to be whoever it is you want to be. To address those issues in your life that need to be addressed. To help you push aside fear and take that first step.

So yeah, it's sometimes funny what you will find in a place you never expected to find it....

I hope you have a great day, truly.