I woke up with something on my mind, perhaps the culmination of recent interactions with some of you, and I want to share my thoughts.

First, you need to know, I very much enjoy teasing and performing and being creative, and yes, getting paid for something I love to do is important to me. It's recognition for the preparation, time, and hard work I put into fulfilling fantasies.

But the financial gain is only part of the satisfaction. I know I've said it before, but I can't say it enough: I truly want to be a positive influence in your life. Perhaps that sounds strange, coming from an on-line fantasy woman. But look, at the end of the day we are all human and we desire happy and enjoyable experiences. If I can't give that to you, I've failed in my job and the all the pay in the world can't cover that up. I sincerely want to give you the fulfillment you crave.

Erotica, fantasy, and sex, like anything, functions best in balance. Even were I a simple Hooters Girl, while I might be interested in contributing to your enjoyment of the evening, bringing you wings, beers, and a little personality in the hope of getting an extra-appreciative tip, my goal really isn't extracting your last dime or seeing you stagger out of the restaurant, is it? No. Nor should it be.

Rather, I want you to have a good time, perhaps come back again, maybe even become a regular whose needs I could anticipate and perform small gestures for, the kind of small social interactions we all enjoy and benefit from. And that's what I'm interested in cultivating with my audience, a comfortable, on-going, mutually satisfying relationship that hits all our needs. I desire a relaxed, sustained relationship with my fans that is realistic and genuine, not one that quickly burns out from unsustainable intensity or crazy obsession.

Some performers might not see their job that way. They may see separating you from your money as their primary goal, and the quicker the better. Me, I'm not here to do that or cause hurt to you or your family. I want my little corner of the world to be a safe place, one where your compulsions will not be taken advantage of, somewhere you can come and go feeling good about yourself, not feeling empty and taken.

Now it's true, I am a smart girl, and know I've priced my videos like a cheap drug, but not to addict you, but to prod you to try a lot of them, to experience all I have to offer. I know that once you experience me, you'll want more, but you won't go bankrupt enjoying my quality work. You'll feel like you're getting good value, and I'll have the volume to support the superior product I want to produce, videos I can be proud of and ones you'll want to keep in your collection.

It's all part of the balanced perspective I want each of us to have here at my site. Some fans tell me how jealous they are of my husband. One guy even said he hated him, although he later apologized and admitted that my husband, "seems like a cool guy." (He is.) My man recently helped co-host a cam show and was responsible for administering the punishment that everyone watching wanted to see me endure, from cropping my ass, dripping hot wax on my breasts to flipping the power switch on the wand vibrator attached to my pussy. Those of you who watched had to realize, my husband is no different than you are! So yes, I talk to him about what it's like to be a fan and he tells me things that help me understand you better but he also gave me some recommendations that he would like to share with you. Some I may have mentioned previously, but I wanted a post that combined my philosophy and some resources he has found valuable for him.

Now, again, neither of us wants to come across as an expert or know it all, because we're not, but being involved in this endeavor has made us more aware of the impact this business can have on people, and we very much want to be a constructive force, not a destructive one. We realize these resources may not appeal to everyone or be relevant to your experience, but they are offered sincerely in the hope they provide the kind of insight for you that helped to guide us.

Because in the end, we want you to be happy and to discover your own real-life fantasy partner as we did one another. And while you're on that voyage, I want to be one of those naughty women who puts a smile on your face, makes you think, and, yes, puts a thrill in your pants. If you do you decide to buy a video or two (or three) of mine or find that I am someone who can make a personal fantasy come true, I'll be excited to give it the attention it deserves without judgment. And my panties, most definitely, those fragrant mementos of my day are available to you as well...just ask! (But as they say in Vegas...play responsibly!)

KSW & Hubby's Life Resource Bookshelf:

The Game - Neil Strauss (this will teach you some magic tricks in order to approach a woman and land a date)
How to Win Friends and Influence Others - Dale Carnegie (this will teach you a better approach to interacting with others and having a better life)
No More Mr. Nice Guy - Robert Glover (this will dispel myths, approaches that you think should work, but simply don't)
The Married Man Sex Life Primer - Athol Kay (this book is gold, eye opening insights to you and the woman / future woman in your life - must read)
Triggers: Creating Behavior That Lasts - Marshall Goldsmith (this book provides a guide to help you become the person that you want to be)

Depending on where you are on your journey in life, may guide where you start....questions? Please don't be shy to message me...

XoXo,

KS