October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. As a survivor, I know the suffocating weight.

People often make assumptions about my life as a pro Domme in NYC, but they don’t see the woman who used the tools of power/autonomy to reclaim her own life after years of pain.

Finding the BDSM/fetish community wasn't just about work- it was my exit strategy. It taught me the true definitions of boundaries, consent, and self-worth when I had little left. The financial independence I built in this space literally paid for my safety and the life I have now. My power isn't a performance; it is hard-won, earned, and non-negotiable.

To my fans and subs: Thank you. Your support, adoration, and respect for my craft gave me the means to thrive on my own terms. You aren’t just patrons; you are a part of the reason I am safe, free, and empowered. I don’t take your presence in my life for granted.

#DVAM #Survivor #ProDomme #NYC