Post from Heidi Lee Bocanegra · October 19, 2025

09.19.25—Red One Piece

I’m looking extra crunchy bc I’m going through a breakup while recovering from a cold. I know no one wants to hear this, but the struggle is so real because I love him. But I don’t understand why I keep letting myself go through the same process repeatedly. My strategy to get over him is not to get in another relationship—but to become a social butterfly. I intend on meeting beautiful souls and on letting go of the fear that ‘ours’ could be the only real connection I’ll ever experience. I know—it’s deep af.

I’m all over the place with the talking and the stretching and the working out. I’ve been focusing hard on plantar fasciitis recovery.

My coparent is back in my life—and at least that’s looking up for me! Another positive highlight is that my toenail is almost done growing back. In the foreseeable future, I do not envision receiving another gel pedicure—those things can be dangerous. I lost one toenail and almost another two!

Thank you for being here for me and letting me talk these things out. 🫶🦋✨〰️