At 67, I had yet to experience meeting a man i did not know for a drink in a bar. This man said he was flying in, that he had landed, and was in a taxi on the way to our meeting place. He never showed up!! I now believe he was just playing with me!!

Also, when I go out men stare at me, and stare at lot but I never get approached until a man has had a few, and even then I don't get approached! Instead on his way out he will hand over his name and number. I have even tried groups, such as qiqong, Shamnic drumming, dance groups etc and the same thing happens!

A couple of men who by happen chance i sit next to at a bar have told me that they are intimidated by my intellect and worldly experiences and that is why they dont ask me out!! I personally think I am a kind and nice woman, and the last thing I do is flaunt my intellect. I use down to earth language when I talk, so I just don't get where they get the impression that they get!

My feelings get hurt, and I often wonder that if it is a good idea to let them know that I am an adult entertainer so maybe I would interest them more!! What do you think?? I really want someone who lives in my community that i can hang out with, have fun, and also have sex! I just don't want friends who just want to have sex. I also want to do fun doings things like dancing, seeing a movie once in a while etc!

The ironic thing is that I can show the world my pussy, but in real life where I live nada! I just get stared at!!