My whole life imploded all in one day. My landlords are asking me to vacate due to issues with my animals. I have to rehome all 4 of my cats because I can’t afford a new place that will accept all of them plus my dogs, especially since I have only 30 days to move. And to top it all off, my exes stepfather decided to tell my family about my Reddit and fansly page. I reconnected with my estranged family shortly after my divorce and it’s been great having them back in my life. It can be hard sometimes since they are extremely health conscious and religious, which isn’t a bad thing, but it certainly was a big reason for me not sharing this side of myself with them. But, now they know. Overall, I’m heartbroken and mortified. My ex husband and his family just keep finding new ways to hurt me. I don’t plan on taking my content down, I finally came to a point where I am embracing myself as I am and I don’t want to backtrack on that progress. But you will notice I won’t be posting much for a bit while I figure out moving into a new place, and as I navigate my family now knowing something so deeply personal. As we all know, this kink is isolating. It’s so easy to convince ourselves that we shouldn’t be turned on by this stuff. But we are. And I can’t pretend I’m not, especially after doing that with my ex for almost a decade. Anyway, that’s my update. Again, I’m not going anywhere, but don’t be surprised if I have periods of radio silence for the next month while I move into a new place. Love all of you guys so much. This community is truly special to me. ❤️